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Deniz Benjamin
1967 - 2023
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Jane Morton posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 7, 2023
Deniz was my best friend, the love of my life, my Swan. Our biggest regret was that it took so long to find each other. Now I have to patiently wait to find him again.
My light went out on February 7th, I can’t see my future. If there is a heaven then one day I will follow that light because that’s where he will be and I will be whole again.
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Teresa posted a condolence
Monday, March 6, 2023
Jane, Noah and my dear cousins. My deepest and heartfelt condolences to all of you.
I am in shock of this heartbreaking news and find it so hard to believe. My heart aches for all of you. I cannot even imagine the pain you are going through from your loss.
Deniz was an amazing guy... genuine, warm, kind and loving. I will always remember him for the exceptional person he was. He has has left us much too soon but his memory will live forever in our hearts. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
Praying that God gives you and your families the strength you need to get through this challenging time.
You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Lots of love,
Teresa & Family
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Laura Costello posted a condolence
Thursday, March 2, 2023
Jane - we will always remember Deniz as a warm, funny and interesting man. Visits to the cottage at Thanksgiving won’t be the same now. We always hoped to see the VW van parked on the lawn when we pulled up! It’s so hard to make sense of this huge loss. All our love to you and Deniz’ wonderful family.
Laura Costello, Andy Udovc and family
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Joe H. Benjamin posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 1, 2023
Deniz's celebration of life tribute, Feb. 25, 2023, Joe H Benjamin
Thank you all for joining us in celebrating Deniz's life.
It's easy to repeat some of the endearing sentiments we've already heard here, so forgive me if I do.
We sometimes joke on how people always say only nice things about those who passed on - in Deniz's case however, anyone that knew him would be hard pressed to find meaningful fault in him - not that we'd want to go there anyway. I can't even recall him ever raising his voice in anger towards anyone, at least not in my presence. Was he perfect, no, non of us can make that claim.
Deniz was a gentle free spirit and adventurous life loving character. His honesty and Charismatic nature would lure you into a lasting friendship.
He was fun to be with, he was creative and mechanically versatile, he was witty and funny, even on the Saturday before his passing, my brother John and I went to see him. On saying our last goodbyes, John stood quietly starring at Deniz, after a long pause Deniz said, "you can stare at me all you want but I'm not gonna change!". Of course I had to laugh! That was Deniz!
He was also very intelligent and genuinely cared about people and the state of society. He once said, "if you have nothing good to say about someone, then say nothing at all".
We would often have deep conversations over almost anything under the sun and moon, except for sports, funny enough. We Benjamins were never big on sports for some reason.
Deniz being the youngest and I the oldest, our 7 year age difference didn't exist. We were always on an equal level especially in our mature years. We respected each others opinions and learned from each other. He was a good listener and genuine to the fault.
There are many great memories I could share but I'd never finish this speech!
I love all my siblings but I'd be lying if I denied he had a special place in my heart.
I'm a strong believer in the afterlife and take comfort in the fact our friends and family still exist. Even though Deniz's body was defeated by cancer, his soul will never be defeated by death!
A last word to Jane, the love of his life, and Noah his beloved son, you know we love you and are always available for you. You are an extension of Deniz and are our family.
Thank you.
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Tanya Jenkins lit a candle
Tuesday, February 28, 2023
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My sincere condolences to Jane and Deniz’s family. It’s been many years since we worked together at KPMG, but I will forever remember Deniz’s smile, his creative can-do attitude, his collegiality with his immediate design team and the broader sales and marketing team. I was glad when Deniz found love again with Jane, and vice versa. As someone who has recently lost two people myself, I sure hope Jane and family had as positive experience as I did with cremation cares. There really are no words for a loss of this magnitude, just take the moment to appreciate the people who have reached out, called, emailed, texted and hopefully that offers some warmth during this dark time. My sincere condolences.
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Julie Karabin posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 28, 2023
Dear Jane,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Deniz.
Sending you our heartfelt sympathy.
Julie & Walt
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fergus posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, February 28, 2023
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Farewell, kindred spirit, which I learned of you from KPMG. It was not for long but it provided the great opportunity to know you and we really hit it off. We had some good times socializing but sadly not enough and I looked forward to many more. Guess we'll just have to wait til we're re-united. Being an atheist myself, I do not believe that rules out the possibility of an afterlife--only one that is nature-driven rather than God-driven. After all, As Johnny Fever from WKRP put it, "There's gotta be a great party going on somewhere." Or in the words of Jimi Hendrix, "If I don't meet you in this world, I'll meet you in the next one. Don't be late."
Until then, brother
P.S.: I will never forget your kindness when you invited me to stay at your place as my marriage was collapsing, having been through much the same thing yourself. Whether you'd run it by Jane or not was another matter, but it demonstrated the good heart of which so much was said at your Celebration of Life--among many other wonderful things, of course.
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Maria Da Silva posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2023
Celebration of Life Tribute - Feb 25/23
Good evening everyone. In case we haven’t met yet, my name is Maria and I’m Deniz’s eldest sister. I too would like to take the opportunity to thank each and every one of you for coming out today to honor and pay tribute to our beautiful baby brother. It fills our hearts with so much joy knowing that Deniz was so loved, cherished and highly respected not just by our family but by so many wonderful friends he would have been so proud to call family. It’s a true testament of who he was and his character. I wish we could have met under very different circumstances.
Words don’t always come easy to me and this is certainly no exception. I have to admit that I struggled to find the right words to pay homage to a man who has had such a profound impact on our lives …a man who filled us with so much love, happiness, joy and pride for the last 55 years. It’s almost impossible to give Deniz the justice and recognition that he so deserves. For the first time in my life I’m stumped…perhaps it’s the denial that still eats away at my soul because I’m not ready to let him go. This is all so surreal and even right up until this morning I couldn’t shake the feeling that Deniz would be physically here celebrating with us until the cruel reality of his absence set in hence the reason we’re here today. My hope is that he is here with us today and we feel his presence all around us.
The greatest gift our parents gave us was each other. Growing up in Toronto as a family of seven wasn’t easy. Mom and dad made many sacrifices and did a wonderful job of providing for our family, we consider ourselves very privileged. As with any European family trying to make a living in Toronto we had our share of struggles but we never neglected to live by the core values we were taught … to love and support each other, to be kind and respectful to others, to live an authentic and honest life, and to work hard for what we want in life. We had many extended family gatherings with many of you present and an abundance of Portuguese cuisine, home made wine, laughter and music. Our love for each other runs very deep and there isn’t anything we wouldn’t do for one another and our families.
So what can I say about this wonderful human that hasn’t already been said….
As a teenager Deniz was a trailblazer who went through many fads including an 80’s platinum blonde hairstyle, black eye liner and mesh crop tops to match his short shorts. Let’s be honest, Deniz wore more hairspray and eye liner than Lea and I ever did! In his later years he sported long wavy hair that was the envy of many girls. When he wanted his first earring, rather than discouraging it, my mother sprung into action and volunteered to do it herself. Naturally he jumped at the offer and the rest is history. He always said he was her favorite and I think he was right.
Later in life, despite being the youngest Deniz quickly became a “go to person”, a confident and a voice of reason for many of us. You could talk to him about anything and everything and he would listen with intent. He always had your back and never harbored ill feelings even when opinions differed. We’ve always had an unspoken mutual respect with no judgements passed.
As a teenager Deniz knew how to live life to the fullest. When he became a roady for my brother Joe’s band back in the day it opened the door to fun times and endless opportunities. I’ll never forget how overjoyed Deniz was when he became an uncle for the first time and how he stayed by my side when I needed him most. He adored his nieces and nephews. His greatest joy was the day he too became a father to his son Noah. They shared an unbreakable bond and spoke every single day.
Fast forward to current day, it’s unfathomable that we started as a family of seven and now there are four of us. I question how we got here and why? It’s tragic enough to have lost our parents and our dear sister-in-law Elisa but to lose a younger sibling is cruel and incomprehensible to imagine our lives moving forward without him. Family events will never be the same because he was so special to all of us. He was an incredibly devoted and loyal husband, brother, father, uncle, godfather and friend who always put everyone’s needs ahead of his own. If you needed his help he didn’t disappoint. Jane and Noah were the Centre of his world and family always came first but he wouldn’t hesitate to give the shirt off his back to help a stranger. That’s who he was, kind and generous to a fault.
Joe and I are the oldest, followed by John, Lea and Deniz who are a year apart. These three were inseparable growing up much like the 3 Musketeers….it was “All for one and one for all, united we stand, divided we fall”. They were so close in age, and so impressionable, curious and carefree, not to mention mischievous at times. Add my cousin Mike to the mix and they became inseparable.
As with the passage of time, not surprising Deniz and Jane formed a special bond with Lea and Roger, their partners in crime and travel buddies. They conveniently live five minutes away from each other and it’s no secret that Deniz and Roger developed somewhat of a bromance. I would even say they were competitive at times but always put their collective minds to work to come up with amicable solutions for just about everything. These two couples thrived on each others company and their deep love of sharing the open road and nature. Give them a few drinks….ok alot of drinks, a couple of cigars for the boys, crank up the good old tunes and they became lost in their own happy place filled with joy, dance and endless laughter. When they were together there was never a dull moment and my husband Luch and I are so grateful to have been a small part of that journey.
I have to give special recognition to Lea and Roger for being consistently there for Deniz and Jane at the best and worst times. They have never hesitated or faltered and we can’t thank them enough from the bottom of our hearts for everything they’ve done for Deniz and Jane …from driving them to appointments and treatments, filling prescriptions at the pharmacy, running errands, providing food, lending a helping hand or rushing over during a crisis in the late or early morning hours. They put their lives on hold and have continued to show their love and support to Jane and our family in every way imaginable. If that’s not true love for family, I don’t know what is!
Deniz touched so many lives and left a profound footprint on the world. We are so grateful and blessed to have had such a wonderful brother in our lives and to be able to honor him as he so richly deserved. Even in his darkest hours he fought so bravely like the fierce warrior that he was. He preferred not to share his illness as he didn’t want to make anyone feel bad or sorry for him or be remembered that way. He wanted to be remembered the way we’ve always known him and to celebrate not the life we lost but the incredible life he lived with each and every one of us. Deniz truly was the glue that bound us together, he was the backbone of our family and although it’s going to be a long and difficult journey, we will forever stay connected to him and will carry him with us in our hearts and in our memories. Deniz would have wanted us to live life like it’s our last and with no regrets because tomorrow is not promised to anyone.
Deniz, thank you for being the best baby brother and enriching our lives for the last 55 years in every way possible. We love you, we miss you and we will be looking for you as we gaze into the stars that light up the sky and as we watch the sun rise and fall across the horizon. Sleep well my beautiful baby brother for we will meet again.
Jane, I’m proud to call you my sister and owe you enormous thanks and gratitude for loving my brother so deeply and intensely and for your tireless and relentless commitment, devotion and companionship during his most vulnerable time of need. We love you and owe you a world of gratitude for making him the happiest he’s ever been.
Indeed what truly matters most is that he had you, you had him and you had each other.
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Roger Gunter posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2023
*Speech delivered at Deniz’ Celebration of Life held February 25, 2023, with 200+ family and friends in attendance*.
I know Deniz would tell us all to dust ourselves off and not make a fuss; that’s because he was a compassionate person and wouldn’t want any of us to feel pain or loss on his account. At the same time, I’m sure his heart would soar looking around this room, seeing so many people he had life experiences with and had an impact on.
I met Deniz through Lea, Deniz’ younger sister, who I met in this very room in 2007 at a Latin dance class. I was immediately drawn to her sense of humour and warmth which both she and Deniz share. It didn’t take long before I found myself fully immersed in the Benjamin-Da Silva family. I had found my soulmate in Lea and a best friend in Deniz. I didn’t really know the impact Deniz would have on me at that time. In fact, I’m not sure most did, it just felt good being around him. As time went on Jane entered the picture. Jane brought a new chapter to Deniz’ life and soon we were four souls navigating all that life has to offer. We spent countless hours socializing in our backyards, at loud family gatherings, and on the road. Deniz was always game for new experiences, the 4 1/2 of us, Asia his little Shih Tzu included, decided to go on an interior canoe camping trip. He and Jane quickly took to the wilderness experience; I’m not so sure about little Asia though. I would sometimes catch Deniz staring out into the infinitely beautiful landscapes in deep reflection. I could tell he was taking it all in and appreciating the moment, perhaps it was the artist in him. He never took anything for granted and gave respect and meaning to every moment and every person.
Lea and I owned a Vintage VW camper, a “Westy”, and would always say how great it would be if Deniz and Jane could join us on our road trips and VW meet-ups. Despite all our efforts, Deniz always resisted pointing out in fun how failed and unreliable they were and vowed he would never ever own one. Then one year we convinced Deniz and Jane to join us at a VW bus event. Perhaps it was the wine, the tie dye or that thing you just can’t put a finger on, but they were both hooked after that. Less than two months later I get a call from Deniz, “Hey you wanna check out a Westy in Quebec”? I smiled; I guess never ever is not so long after all. The four of us set off to Quebec to pick up “Leila” a brown 1985 VW named from a combination of both their mothers’ names. My heart bounded knowing we would spend even more time with one another.
Deniz and I would talk for hours about our vans, plan our improvements and our next adventures. We would make annual trips to various VW events in Canada and the US, where Deniz enjoyed the music, art and most of all, the friends that we made. We also shared countless miles on road trips around the Great Lakes and to the Florida Keys. We didn’t always “make it”; anyone who owns one of these things will have shared a few roadside breakdown “F-bombs” and the sight of their beloved van on a flatbed. Deniz I and were no exception. These, like many of life’s challenges, just build deeper connections among people. We shared our good times and our bad times like real friends and families do, and this room is full of those people.
When you think life doesn’t get much better Deniz and Jane moved from Mississauga to a few blocks away. We supported each other in every conceivable way, renovating, looking after their cats, and celebrating all of life’s moments.
Upon hearing of Deniz’ diagnosis the balance in my universe was lost. Sadly, there are so many people lost to this illness. Deniz did his best in face of his illness. The brave face he put on was to protect those who loved him. I am forever grateful I was able to be by my brother’s side to the very end. He told me he would have done the same for me.
I am honoured to have had my time with him, for the things he taught me and experiences we shared. I’m not really sure what the future holds for me or anyone else or even how to go on without Deniz in my world. My experiences have shown me that life can be cut short for any of us, being able to recognize those good times as well as those bad times is the only way we can know what real happiness is. Deniz was true happiness to me and he will travel with me wherever I go.
Thank you, I miss you friend!
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Lea Benjmain posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2023
We’re here to celebrate Deniz’ life and what he meant to us. I recall casual conversations with him about how we’d want to be remembered. We’d say how we wanted people not to cry and mourn but to laugh and remember the good times and memories.
Sadly, it’s not an easy thing to do now that we’re here. I am still processing the magnitude of my pain which had started well before we lost him. Our parents passed away in May of 2004 and it was a struggle, but this is unimaginable. We were all going to grow old before we had to deal with this.
I am consoled that he was loved so much by all and that he was cared for and comforted by the love of his life, Jane. I am so grateful for you Jane and your tireless efforts by his side.
Writing about him was a struggle. I needed to say something that is as sincere and genuine as he was, anything less feels like a betrayal.
I am fully and painfully aware that I was blessed to have a very special relationship with my brother; in fact, all my brothers and sister did as well.
He and I shared everything growing up, a bathroom, make-up, and hair products. It was the 80’s after all – big hair, big shoulder pads and make-up. After he wore down my eyeliner to the nub, I told him he it was time to get his own.
We went out together and partied together, sat up in bed late at night talking out our successes and struggles, me on my bed wrapped up like a pita and he on the floor beside me.
He would ask me for advice, or we’d talk things out; apparently, he thought the 14 months between us gave me some vast wisdom he did not possess. Over the years I realized I had come to rely on him for advice and support. He somehow managed, no matter the situation, to comfort me in knowing that everything was going to be okay. He had the “it” factor and listened with sincerity more than anyone I have ever known.
Deniz, Jane, Roger and I became the Fantastic 4. I could not have wished for more. We road-tripped, camped and travelled, had dinners and BBQ’s, went to concerts and events, and called on each other to help with house projects and spent so much time helping each other with our vintage VW campers. We would laugh so hard we almost peed, danced and sang like a bunch of hippies with our VW friends, and anyone who would entertain our brand of crazy.
Together, we experienced some of the wonders and beauty that this world offers. Deniz never took any of those moments for granted and was always awestruck by this beautiful world. I lost my brother and friend who was so much a part of my own life.
He never took his family and friends for granted and loved them deeply. In his valiant effort to fight the cancer that had taken so long to diagnose, his greatest worry was not for himself but for those he loved; he so wanted to spare us the pain of what was happening to him. So kind was he that despite his own plight he cried for the patients he saw at chemo. Selfless always.
So many memories flash in my mind like a whirlwind and I cannot control the tears and sadness. I am lonely without him like something was ripped from my soul. I look forward to the day that my tears turn to joy in celebration of those memories, and the way he would have wanted to be remembered.
Deniz had a hobby collecting and restoring smoking pipes. He found it relaxing and he was meticulous. He had shown me his collection among which was his corn cob pipe. I’d never seen one before and was immediately reminded of the Frosty and Snowman cartoon of our childhood. I of course put it in my mouth and did the whole “happy birthday” routine where Frosty comes to life. We laughed so much. Then on my birthday he gifted me my own corn-cob pipe. It was the last thing he gave me, my only regret was we never had a chance to try them out together.
In my birthday card Denis wrote: “I am fortunate to have you in my life and the best part is, my best friend has been right by my side from the day I was born, and I know you will still be there”. I am and will always be.
On a recent trip to Egypt, I learned that upon death Egyptians would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was, 'Did you bring joy?' The second was, 'Did you find joy? There is no question that Deniz always brought joy and I am certain he found it in the short time he had.
I keep many tokens of days past, cards and letters that have given me comfort. I came upon one from our mother so I will let her speak the most sincere and authentic words on my behalf. She wrote: “My precious babies, I could not control myself; I would consume you all with kisses. I wish I could go back and lift my little diamonds in my arms and run with joy as I used to. You are the morning sun that shines so bright in the days of summer.”
Deniz, your light will shine forever in our hearts; your laughter will ring in our ears and your kindness and goodness will guide us through the remainder of our days. I will share this life and travel this world, with you in my heart, remembering how much you loved being here.
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Beatrice and Walter Gunter posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2023
Trough our Sons Relationship with Lea we got to know Deniz for many Years!
We loved Him like a Son! He will always be in our Hearts ❤️
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Laurie & Brian Wager & Henry uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, February 26, 2023
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Our friendship with Deniz and Jane began as neighbours in Mississauga. While walking Asia they strolled past our house often and we all just started chatting one day. Before we knew it there was wine, Port and tequila nights snacking on charcuterie, with lots of interesting and fun conversations, lasting way into the early hours. We loved hearing all about their VW adventures and spending time with them because they always made us feel good. We eventually moved farther east and they moved to Etobicoke, roughly around the same time. This new found distance didn’t matter in the least. They loved the opportunity to sleep in our driveway in their adorable VW, even as late as the end of November! They are salt of the earth people and we are forever grateful to have been a part of their lives. Jane, we are your two of your people, please don’t forget that. We want to help, support and love you in this tremendously difficult and challenging time. Love always Brian and Laurie xo
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Caroline Cagampan-Stoute posted a condolence
Saturday, February 25, 2023
My deepest condolences go out to Jane, Noah and the Benjamin family. Such profound grief and loss to lose a truly beautiful soul. I first met Deniz over 25 years ago at KPMG in Scotia Plaza (yes, back in the day with his ponytail and laid-back boho vibe). He was, and remained throughout the years, creative, warm, kind, hilarious, joyful, and authentic before that was a thing. I was so happy for Deniz and Jane when they found true love (reminded me of my own love story with Hal). When Deniz founded his own creative studio, he kept in touch with many of his former colleagues every year with his fun animated Christmas greetings. That’s the kind of sweetheart he was; he smiled with his eyes and heart. Throughout the years, there were special and hilarious points of contact with Deniz and Jane: a friend’s epic milestone birthday (involving a scooter), naughty Halloween in the Village (Octomom, Dolly Parton), fun KPMG events (the never-ending bus trip…then there was the fare featuring the Whale & Pickles Pub), even a Zoom call during the pandemic to reconnect. The deep love he had for Jane, Noah and his family is inspiring, and a testament to a man who lived and loved to the fullest. Rest easy, Deniz. Gone too soon, always missed, forever loved. Wishing Jane, Noah and the Benjamins peace, love and light. Love never dies; love lives forever.
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Nicole Hammond posted a condolence
Saturday, February 25, 2023
We knew Deniz as a most beautiful human being filled with compassion, warmth and kindness.
We will always remember his clever and witty sense of humor and how his kind nature made everyone around feel welcomed and happy.
Deniz will be missed dearly.
Wishing all of his family healing and peace ,
With love,
Nicole Hammond
Kyle Hammond
Tony Gerace
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Marie Benjamin Pacheco posted a condolence
Saturday, February 25, 2023
The news about the loss of Deniz passing came as a shock to me and our families.
I am at a total loss for words. My heart goes out to all of you during this most difficult time.
So many memories running through my mind of the early years and also our last family BBQ picnics filled with laughter, joy and love. I will always remember his kindness and sweet smile. Deniz was, and will always be remembered, loved by many and missed by all.
With a heavy heart, we offer Jane, Noah, Joe, Maria, John, Lea and Mike and all your families our deepest sympathies and condolences. May God bless you all with strength and peace.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With love, Marie, Tony and family.
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Henry Benjamin posted a condolence
Saturday, February 25, 2023
Jane and Noah, Joe, Maria, John, Lea and Mike I am sorry for your loss. Denis was not only my cousin but a childhood friend. I always looked forward to the occasional visit to Uncle Joe’s because I would get to hang out and play with Deniz and John. It was always a pleasure catching up with Deniz whenever he came by our high school and at the family barbecues. He always had a smile and a kind and good-hearted personality that radiated from him. He holds a special place in my heart and I am deeply saddened that he was taken way too soon. There are so many beautiful memories in this book and evidently Deniz was loved by and touched everyone that was fortunate enough to meet him. Irene, Kayla, Lucas and I send you our deepest condolences and we hope you are all able to take comfort in all of the memories and knowing he will forever be in all of our hearts.
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David Middleton posted a condolence
Friday, February 24, 2023
One of my best memories of Deniz:
Deniz and Jane stayed at the farm in their beloved VW bus. Early in the morning on a beautiful summer day I joined them for breakfast at the top of the farm driveway overlooking Quinte Bay. Deniz was so happy to be there, joyous and, delighted with being able to cook breakfast in the fresh morning air. The breakfast was perfect.
Good bye Deniz, so grateful to have known you.
David
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Angie Andich posted a condolence
Monday, February 20, 2023
I am so sad to read the news of Deniz's passing. I had the pleasure to work with Deniz and Jane at KPMG, many years ago. Deniz had such a gentle demeanour, but you could always feel his passion and love ran deep. He was always positive and kind and smart. Jane and family, may you be comforted with memories, and just know that all of your tears and how much you will miss him are a testament to how great of a human he was. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Deniz.
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Julie Bannerjea lit a candle
Sunday, February 19, 2023
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My deepest heart felt condolences to Jane Morton and the entire family. I had the pleasure of working with Deniz at KPMG! Just so warm, kind, positive and always so helpful.
Jane… you two shared such an incredible bond, true love!! No words left except to say May this beautiful soul Rest In Peace
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Pierre & Jill Potvin uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, February 16, 2023
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Q: What did Deniz like to do in their free time?
A: Spent time with VW friends Pierre & Jill in Roger & Lea's backyard, in Pierre & Jill's backyard and in the "Hood"
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Jill Lafreniere posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 15, 2023
My background is Human Resources so I have conducted hundreds of reference checks. If similar comments come from different sources then the comment is probably accurate. So it is no surprise to read about how Deniz has touched so many lives as he has touched mine over the past 10 years or so. He was caring, witty and funny. He saw the best in people and made them feel special. He once told me at a VW hippy event that no one could rock tie dyed jeans like me. He was fun loving, interesting and open minded. Truly a special person and good friend that I will miss dearly.
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Tuesday, February 14, 2023
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When Jane found Deniz we were overjoyed. She is one of our oldest friends and godmother to our daughter. Their connection was deep and all-encompassing. Within no time, we fell in love with him too. He was truly a beautiful soul. Through the years, he figured in many of our cherished memories. We were always excited knowing we were going to see Jane and Deniz. Enjoying wonderful food and wine, we would talk about anything imaginable. Deniz would lead us in with fascinating insights, he’d tell us about his current projects—he had an amazing capacity to get things done—and then he’d have us laughing so hard at something that we could barely breathe. In profound ways, his companionship was comforting. From lending a hand, to giving advice, to simply being dependably himself, he was there for you. Although his absence feels like an inconsolable loss, we are grateful to have had him in our lives. As with any visit, it was never enough time, but it was always the best. We are blessed to have known our friend Deniz.
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David Posen posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
I first met Deniz in 1995 when he was working for KPMG and was assigned to work with me to prepare powerpoint slides for my presentation at their conference. He was warm and friendly, was wearing sandals and had a ponytail - I liked him immediately! And he created some great graphics. I asked if he could do some freelance work for me after that and he said Yes. Thus began a 25-year work-related collaboration that grew into a warm and treasured friednship. I think of him every time I prepare a powerpoint deck for a client presentation, choosing from the huge collection of colourful slides he created for me. Those thoughts will resonate even more strongly - albeit sadly - now. Rest in Peace, Deniz I will miss you. David Posen, Oakville, Ontario
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Susan Riggs posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
Over the years, we have met on sunny, happy patios from Guelph to Toronto, sipping our favorite brew and indulging in vibrant conversation. We came to know, respect and love Deniz for his laughter, sense of humour and twinkling eyes. Most of all, we came to know his generosity of spirit and his love for people and pets (e.g. Eugene the cat). His loss is profound and we feel so lucky to have known him.
Susan and Jacqueline
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Paula Carrascalao posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
As we Go through life,
on a rare occasion we come across people who make the world brighter. They bring light to darkness, Deniz was a shining star, the kindness soul you could ever meet, always seeing the best in people. My heart is heavy with the news of his Passing.
Our paths take us in different directions but our Love never dies.
We met during our High School years. I would often see Deniz and Mario DeSousa, cruising around my High School, Harbord Collegiate…. their loud music echoing from their (John’s)car. Mario was the smooth talker, Deniz was the shy one, but his smile made you melt. We were young and enjoyed life to the fullest with friends and family.
We shared many experiences together, whether we were travelling or enjoying something simple like Sunday lunches with his family. There was always laughter and happiness when Deniz was in the room.
He was always surrounded by great friends. I was glad to hear that Michael and Mario became lifetime friends of Deniz. People were drawn to him, with his kindness, his compassion and how he treated everyone with respect. He was a Beautiful soul.
His sister Lea…. was always by his side, They had a special bond they supported each other no matter what. His brother John was always there for him too, day or night, no questions asked.
Deniz was blessed to have such a supportive and loving family, we were all blessed to feel his unconditional love.
He will Always be in my heart.
The memories will live forever, he will never be forgotten. The world is a little darker now.
Until we meet again …
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Leanne Grammenz uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, February 12, 2023
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I met Deniz working at KPMG, as a graphic designer fresh out of college. It was exciting and also indimidating for me, not from the city, and working on the 54th floor of the Scotia Plaza tower. Deniz was one of my first work team-mates in marketing group, sharing brainstorming sessions, helping each other with design tips and tricks. As soon as I met Deniz I felt welcomed into the group, the most warm-kind hearted, happy-go-lucky kind of guy! And that hair! (I secretly I envied his gorgeous locks!) Deniz was happy to share his home-made Portuguese potato pizza lunch slices with anyone who showed an interest (who puts potatoes on pizza?!). I will always remember Deniz' wide and "whole-face" smile, for he didn't just smile with his mouth, his whole face lit up! The photos I am sharing are from a few KPMG fundraising events, the first 2 are from a CN Tower stair climb event. It was the coldest, windiest day, and we were all freezing waiting in line for our turn to climb. The third photo is a group "giant bike ride" event, and you can spot Deniz in the front middle. Deniz was always ready to pitch in for a good cause. Some get called to serve a higher purpose earlier than others, Billy Joel said it best "only the good die young". Rest in Peace Deniz. You are one of the good ones.
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Beatrice posted a condolence
Saturday, February 11, 2023
We have known Deniz through Lea s Relationship with our Son Roger for many Years!
He was like a Brother to Roger and Son to us!
We loved Him for His balanced Character, happiness, kindness and Humor!
Our Heart is Brocken we miss Him!
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Derek Benjamin uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Cousin, I pray for your family to have the strength to endure these testing times without you. I hope they can feel your presence, feel comfort, during this time of need. I wish we had more time together, so we can share another laugh and feel those good vibes you bring into a room. I hope we all can remember this feeling, because that will keep you alive in our memories, so we can bring such joy to each other in a time of need. Godspeed, cuz.
Sincerely,
Derek Benjamin
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Sandra Gebhard uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Dennis you will be forever my n our hearts!! So grateful we got to be with you At Buses By the Beach. You were a beautiful soul. So sad for you that we know of the family, Jane, Lea and Roger. Till we meet again on the other side. Love and hugs Sandy and Bruce!!
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Michael Steeves uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 10, 2023
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I’m so thankful for my friendship with Deniz and all the laughter we shared. We became friends while working together in the early 90’s. We had lunch together everyday and would hang out all the time. This was before the internet when chats were done in person. When Deniz became a father I remember how excited he was and his love for his son Noah was infectious. Deniz would run to catch the early Go Train after work so he could spend every possible moment with Noah. Our in person conversations turned into long telephone conversations. Although fewer and far between, when we connected it seemed like no time had passed at all. Deniz was also blessed to find his soul mate in Jane, someone that was his partner and best friend. Although his time was short here, he always lived life with passion and purpose. It’s always hard to describe how it feels to lose someone. At first I thought my heart was hurting because of Deniz’s loss, I’ve had to stop myself several times thinking he’s still here. Today I was thinking maybe it’s also all the memories and love rushing into our hearts. It’s probably a bit of both, either way it’s a feeling that’s hard to describe. I’m just thankful that Deniz was part of my life.
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Susan Hanmer lit a candle
Friday, February 10, 2023
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When Deniz and Jane lived in Mississauga they were known in the neighbourhood as the cute couple that always walked holding hands. When I shared the news of Deniz passing it was always met with “man he was such a nice guy”. Yes he certainly was. RIP Deniz you will be missed.
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Manuel & Barbara Benjamin lit a candle
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Our deepest condolences to the whole family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all..
Love
Manuel and Barbara Benjamin
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Bruce Lehman uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Q: How did you meet Deniz?
A: Buses By the Beach is an annual fundraiser for the Phoenix Society which helps people with issues from fires and other burn exposure.
The festival is located near Mt Olive, MI.
My camping friends and I met Deniz there along with Jane, Lea and Roger. We appropriately called the The Canadians!
We had such fun meeting and partying (never to excess) with our northern family. Deniz was always ready to laugh and smile. Did I mention he was a bit ornery?
The photo was at Buses By the Beach.
My wife and I are sad.
Bruce & Sandy
Fort Wayne, IN
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Mark Manus posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
We are very sad, we will miss being with Deniz camping in Michigan.
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Mario Desousa posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Deniz was my absolute best friend.... since the first day I met him while he was being the sound man for "Piranha", we hit it off!!
To cruising Central Tech in his brothers Camaro or Van while listening to "opportunities" by Pet shop Boys, and many other New Wave groups!!
High school is pretty tough for many....but with Deniz, we were each other's wing man. My time in high school was the best!!
I joined the military and moved away from Toronto, but every time I came back for a visit his family welcomed me like I never left.
Deniz was the brother I never had.....
Was so looking forward to the day that he and Jane would come out to Calgary, so I could host him out here in the beautiful Rockies.
I love you Deniz.....
Lynda will show you the ropes up there in Heaven.
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Mario Desousa uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 10, 2023
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Mark Haak posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Deniz truly was one-of-a-kind. A genuine, inspiring, supportive, caring, adventurous and authentic soul.
He taught me so much about life, health and music and had such a lasting impact on me when we met in our 20s.
His humour and laugh breathed life into everyone who had the honour of crossing paths with him.
He will be missed, but his energy will always surround those of us who loved him.
Cheers to you brother, love and light.
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Adella Faria posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Q: How did you meet Deniz?
A: I met Deniz through my cousin Michael Steeves. Deniz always had a smile on his face whenever I saw him. He loved life and always made people feel comfortable. I didn’t have the opportunity to spend much time with Deniz but will always remember him, and his infectious smile and loving, caring, warm character. Taken way too soon.
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Sandra Crean posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Our deepest condolences friends and family of Deniz. We were so looking forward to see you this past summer but sadly you were already very ill by that point. However, we were fortunate enough to spend an evening with you, Jane, Roger and Lea. You were all so welcoming. It was so invigorating to have such a wonderful evening during the pandemic. Nuray and I hadn’t laughed so much for a while and still think about it often. Especially driving around in our little camper van. You will be sorely missed by many I’m sure and we are happy to have know you even for such a short time. You will continue to travel with us in our hearts on every adventure. Rest in peace dear Deniz
Love Sandra & Nuray (from your VanAlert family)
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Bruce Washburn posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Deniz was great people, we just met last year at Buses at the Beach in Michigan and formed a nice bond. Gone way too soon. Our thoughts and prayers to the entire family, as well as to Roger and Lea.
Rest in Peace Deniz - you will be remembered fondly.
Bruce and Denise Washburn
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Tina Pulfer posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2023
Deniz was a beautiful soul. The nicest, kindest person we have ever had the honour of knowing. We will miss you Deniz....we are so very sorry my dear friend Jane...all our love Rob and Tina.
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The family of Deniz Benjamin uploaded a photo
Thursday, February 9, 2023
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